By: Jason K. Denmeade
Jason K. Denmeade is Regional Vice President-Elect for the Ohio-Michigan Region and a systems accountant with the Defense Finance and Accounting Service Strategic Business Management office, Navy Enterprise Resource Planning (ERP) branch.
I have been very fortunate over my nine-year DFAS career to attend five AGA Professional Development Conferences (PDC), visiting Washington D.C., Orlando, San Diego, Atlanta and Nashville. I have met many wonderful people, which resulted in a strong web of professional relationships, many of whom I consider friends. The benefits of the PDC are endless, but I feel networking is the most important aspect you can take back to your workplace or local chapter. There are some tricks of the trade and guidelines to climbing the social networking ladder both professionally and personally.
No. 1—Be you. The critical first step in connecting with others is to be you. Be genuine and don’t fake it … people see right through that. It may sound trite, but others want to connect with the inner you and not the surface you. In order to connect meaningfully with other people, you have to first connect with yourself. Meaningful connection is a byproduct of understanding who you are, who you are becoming, and what you literally and figuratively bring to the table. Be open and authentic, know who you are, and proceed with confidence. Make an effort to relax, and have some fun!
No. 2—If you don’t mingle and meet new people, then you won’t. So many times groups cling to their own cliques from their local chapters or workplace and don’t take advantage of the other thousands of folks around them. I must admit, I was guilty of this initially because it’s naturally to stick to what you know. It is crucial to networking that you step out of your comfort zone and say hello to someone you don’t know. You don’t have to say anything clever, or be a good joke teller, just say hi. That often prompts further discussion and next thing you know you've met someone new. It’s just that easy and this is also a confidence booster for those who have that common fear of public speaking. You may start with one person right next to you, then the whole table or area is conversing. Many people are relieved when conversation is prompted rather than the awkward silence of sitting with people and no one talking. I actually enjoy prompting conversation. Did I mention if you don’t meet new people, then you won’t?
No. 3—Take advantage of the breaks in the Exhibit Hall. I have met some of my best contacts here, but you must make networking two-way. You should be prepared to give as well as receive. This can be as simple as saying to a contact, “Thank you so much for your help. Please call me if there’s ever anything I can do to repay the favor.” And AGA’s sponsors host the best events in the evenings! If you don’t take the time to walk around, talk with them and see what their booth is all about, you could be left out of some real fun.
No. 4—The PDC strengthens your support system. Members of AGA can often take advantage of formal coaching or mentoring relationships with more experienced professionals who provide guidance and useful insights. Even on an informal basis, such relationships can be a source of answers and solutions when you’re facing a challenging situation in your business. At the very least, the feeling that you have a support network behind you can boost your confidence when problems arise. I have utilized this on many occasions. As I work for the Department of Defense, I have reached out to both government and contractor contacts alike. Using this support system ultimately assists our customers and taxpayers. So, look at networking like you are performing a civic duty.
No. 5—Don’t abuse your network. There are certain things you can reasonably
anticipate from your contacts, such as professionalism and courtesy. And there
are a few things you should not expect. These include an immediate response to
your request for assistance, countless hours of their time and use of a
contact’s name as a door opener without his or her permission. Most of your
contacts will try to be helpful, but this doesn’t mean you should take
advantage of their generosity. If someone promises to get back to you, don’t
pressure that person with repeat calls. They have multiple and competing
demands on their time as you do. Your voice or e-mail message is likely one of
many. By observing these simple rules of networking etiquette, you’ll avoid
alienating your contacts while ultimately strengthening your professional
connections.
How has social/professional networking been advantageous for you and your career? If you are attending the PDC this year, how will you improve your networking skills? I’d like to hear your thoughts.